Russian Word of the Day

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Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Road to Schuchinsk

Day 7

I realize that I haven't old you anything about our daily trip from our cottage in Kokshetau to the babyhouse in Schuchinsk.

Every morning at 8:45, our interpreter Makhabbat, arrives in a slate-colored hat as fluffy as a newborn chick, and a maroon embroidered jacket with matching boots. We make small talk, smile excessively (as we are trying to impress her with the fact that we are not rude Americans), and we watch her chase Calvin who is half facinated-half terrified of her morning games. Each morning, you see, she pretends that she is there, not to take us to the babyhouse, but to make him take a nap. She chases him around the living room scolding "Let's go! Let's go! Upstairs. It is time for your nap." His eyes light up with horrified excitment and he races off, pinkfaced, screaming "Nooooo!" He hides behind me, laughing hysterically, and I pretend to give him up. "Oh, no!" I say "It must be naptime." "Noooo!" Repeat with Tim. "Nooo!" Repeat with mom. "Nooo!" Etc.

When Nursultan, our driver arrives, we collect our bag of baby clothes and diapers for Garrett, our camera, our passports, and our lovely slippers. We pull on boots and coats and scarves and hats and mittens. We walk 30 steps to Nursultan's car, murmer "privet," shift all our things to the car and we are off. As soon as we are out of the driveway, however, custom and the excessive heat in his car dictate that you take off your hat, jacket, scarves, and gloves immediately. We are constantly dressing and undressing here.

After a couple of minutes of small talk with Makhabbat (Nursultan does not speak English), we all settle in for the hour long drive across the steppe to Schuchinsk. It only takes a few minutes to exit Kokshetau, passing an impressive, but never completed, sports complex with large mosaics of Kazakh men and women on the outside. The speed limit in Kokshetau is about 30mph, so there is plenty of time to watch the men and women in their high heeled boots and fur lined coats. Makhabbat explains that Kokshetau is a good city to live in because you can walk everywhere.

Kokshetau is the big city on the outskirts of large wheat fields. Unlike the west of the country, where oil is the big business and Land Cruisers and BMWs are a common sight, here in the northern towns around Kokshetau, the business is wheat. Makhabbat has explained that many men do not work at all during the winter months. Her own husband works in the wheat industry, but last year the harvest was bad so, she says with a wry smile, "he is a stay-at-home husband for now."

A couple minutes outside of town are the cemetaries, Christian on one side of the road and Muslim on the other. The muslim cemetary looks like a tiny city because every grave is surrounded by turretted walls, which are adorned at the corners by like domes similar to those found on the mosques. It seems to go on forever. Then, as suddenly as it appeared, it is gone and we drive through the wild emptiness of the snowy wheat fields and the steppe.

The steppe, consists of... umm... nothing. The ground is flat with an occasional rolling hill. Small, bare, scrubby trees grow in clumps alongside the road. You can see the tangled black nests of the giant Kazakh magpies forced into crooks in the branches, while their owners hop jauntily in the ditches below. This is my favorite part of the drive, because in morning the trees are flocked in a glistening frost. The ground and trees are completely white and sparkle in the weak morning sun with a dazzling brillance. It is positively magic.

After about a half hour we drive through a nameless town of soviet era dakas and bright modern gas stations. Some of the homes on the edge of town have small enclosed yards for several sheep, cows, or horses. The roofs of the acompanying stables are covers in heaps of steaming, stinking peet. Makhabbat says that the men here work "on the road." Again there is no work in the winter and not much sign of activity from the car.

If we are lucky, sometime after passing this town, we will see a herd of large furry Kazakh horses, some of them "hobbled" with short bands connecting their back legs so that they can't run. We saw a herder on horseback with them this morning. He carried a stick at least eight feet long trailing loosely on the ground behind him.

Finally, we arrive in Schichinsk, a bustling, but very poor town, criscrossed with abandoned train tracks and inhabited by a large population of fluffy stray dogs. I get a kick out of watching the dogs, with their ears perked up, crossing the streets unnoticed amid clusters of smartly dressed women. They look like they are on their way to work as well. Occasionally, you see them stop and listen to snipets of conversation between men with shoulders hunched against the cold, before trotting along purposefully. I asked Makhabbat why there are so many dogs, but no cats. She answered with a short laugh that it is too cold for cats.

The stylish dress of the Kazakh people belies the conditions in which many here live. Every morning we will see at least one young man or elderly woman slowly pulling a sled carrying a single large metal jug filled with water from the large communal pipes in the middle of town. Fences and roofs are made from sheets of corragated iron. Plaster crumbles off the white dakas with the pretty blue shutters.

Yesterday, we caught a young couple passionately kissing on the edge of the train tracks. We all agreed that it was a good way to keep warm.

Then we arrive at the babyhouse, breeze through the entryway which smells strongly of cabbage and mashed potatoes, enter the nursery, catch sight of our baby boy and forget the world. Here are some pictures that we took of our very smiley boy today before my camera died.







That's all for now.

Paka!

Becca

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Sampson Shorn!

Day 6

When Tim and I got to the babyhouse today, we found our little bug had been shaved! Mohawk man is no more! As ridiculous as the first haircut was, I loved the mohawk and was sort of desastated to find that it had been replaced by the standard institutional cut. They cut my baby's hair!
Before (our little rock and roll mohawk man)

After (still perfectly darling and practically perfect in every way... but without "the do")
And like Sampson, shorn by Delilah in the dead of night, this unexpected trim sapped our little Garrett of his strength. After briefly playing with Mom and Dad (and of course yellow bowling pin bear) his sparkling hazel eyes started to look tired. Those incredibly long lashes began to droop and before I knew it, he was snoozing contentedly in my arms.

Here's our day in pictures:
Sitting on Mama all bundled up with a super cute hat. (good buy Daddy!)

Flying with Daddy. He loves it!

Yellow Bowling Pin Bear!!!!

Tummy time with Daddy
Chastized by caregivers for letting him play without a hat. Apparently, he was freezing. I neglected to mention that his head would have been significantly warmer with hair.
Honestly, though, the caregivers are very sweet and were happy to take a picture with their Ruslan.

This caregiver, in particular, is our constant superviser. Garrett loves them all. I can't help but feel ridiculously jealous when he smiles at them as they pass.

Back to playing. Kisses from Daddy
Kisses from Mama

Standing... I know. I know. He's freezing.
Look at those lashes!
Getting Sleepy = Good Snuggles

Going...

Going...

Gone.

Paka.

Becca

Monday, March 16, 2009

Thoughts from Kokshetau

Once your eyes adjust to the retina-numbing whiteness of the steppe, you realize that Kokshetau is a city of colors. The trash cans are parrot green. Iron gating appears in all shades of aqua and lime and yellow. The hundred year old mosque in the center of town is as blue as the Kazakhstani flag. The windows on the white dakas are framed in saphire blue. The little girl walking home from school has a light pink puff on the top of her white knit cap. The woman at the market smiles with the glint of three gold teeth. In the midst of the snow and slush so thick and whitegreybrown that the spattered cars are drained of their tint from waistlevel down, these little shreds of color stand out bold and brave in the whiteness. Like the notes of a song finding their way through the static, you strain to hear more.





The babyhouse caregivers have pasted strips of thin cotton cloth to the seams around all the windows in an attempt to keep the heat in and the cold out. The cloth is a blue floral and was probably crib bedding before it got too worn for that purpose. It is beautiful and resourceful and sad.






The babyhouse smells like stewed cabbage and watery potatoes but it is very bright and clean. All of the babies are fat and dressed in a wild assortment of pink and yellow and blue cotton layers




Being here reminds me a little of being a child. I can't understand a word spoken between the driver and the interpretor, so for the hour-long car trip to and from the babyhouse I listen loosely to the conversation between the two, letting the rythmn of the words wash around me. I'm like a bouy in the ocean. I find myself repeating sounds which have no meaning: diavichka. diavitchka. diavitchkee. I remember doing the same thing on trips with my parents as a small girl. Also, I'm tired so early that I am going to bed at dusk,while most Kazakhstanis are still getting home from work. Now, just as when I was a girl, I love the sensation of sleeping while the world is still in motion.

Just photos






Day 5
Just pictures today. I figure... why should I write, if no one comments. That's right. A threat. So here you are, just pictures of a cute baby... hmmm.... not much of a threat after all.

Big smiles for our Daddy!


Garrett had the hicups - so he got a bottle of "compote" which was apple - my guess is that it is water boiled with dried apples to make a warm and weak juice - delicous!



A happy Momma and a happy baby.....together.....

Daddy and the cutie pie looking out the window.



Paka,

Becca

P.S. - Leave comments if you like what you see. I'm feeling awfully alone out here.

Sunday, March 15, 2009

Sleepy but smiling

Day 4
Garrett was sleepy today and when Tim and I first arrived we wondered whether or not he was catching the cold that one of the other babies has. We went through our normal rountine of diaper and kisses and layers and kisses and hats and kisses and blanket and kisses before we were sent, not to the activity room that we had been in until now, but to the larger music room I had seen in other parent's pictures.

I caught a glimpse of Tim's fierce paternal instinct as he muttered something low and terse about getting Garrett out of this institutionalized care. Not that we blame the caretakers for sniffles and colds. That is inevitable. All that we had heard about the caretakers loving these kiddos is true. Everyone we pass knows Garrett by name and they all bark "Eh! Eh! Rrruslan!" at him in friendly russian voices and wide gold toothed smiles. They are doing everything that they can for the babies in their care and we appreicate all of their efforts to keep their little ones safe and warm and happy. They really do a great job. It's just hard to see your little one wheezing and sniffling when you know that you are ready and able to do better.

After about 20 minutes of just being held, Garrett began to perk up and we got lots of smiles playing a game that had been one of Calvin's favorites as a baby. Over and over I let Garrett stand on those strong baby legs on my stomachs as I lay on the floor, then I would swoop him down for a kiss and then stand him back up again. He absolutely adored it. Little thrill seeker.


Then, as we were permitted to let him play on the floor in this room, we let him have some tummy time.


After a while, our pumpkin was tired again and we just held him and rocked for the rest of our time together.




He is such a sweetheart. I trying my best to learn all of his little coos and growls but so far I'm just guessing. The hour and a half goes so fast! I wish I could hold him all day.

He's such a big boy, too. The pants I brought for my 6 month old baby are sized 9 months and they were so tight I unbuttoned them to give his tummy a little more room. The "I'm Calvin's Little Brother" shirt that he's wearing is a 12 month shirt and, granted he has two layers underneath, but it is snug! Looks like Garrett is going to fit right in with the big boys in the Snyder house!

Before I finish, here are a couple more views around the music room.

A view out the window of the older children's play area


Another view out the window. I don't know what that big black thing is.


A wooden wall hanging with a mother hen gathering in her chicks.


Acoustic ceiling tiles with butterflies printed on them



The front of the music room, with piano, a stack of xylophones on the shelve and a radio. There was also an accordian which we heard them playing for the children yesterday when we came in. Each of the groups of older children (up to age 3) have music time everyday in this room.


Just before we left, a photographer came in to take Garrett's passport picture.


After we had said our goodbyes and were walking to the car, Makhabat told us that Garrett hadn't taken his morning nap with the rest of the babies. Tim and I said that we had noticed how tired he was. Makhabat shook her head and said "No. You don't understand. Ze babies they feel zeez things. Zeez is a good sign. He knew you were coming. He was too excited to sleep."

Paka

Becca